DANNIELLE HADLEY IS FINALLY FREE π₯³ππΎ
We last heard from Lady Lifer ahead of her public hearing for commutation on May 9th, 2025. Wellβ¦ SHE WAS SET FREE on June 18th, 2025 after serving 38 years of a LIFE sentence!! One of the fastest commutation turn arounds to date! Our Co-Executive Director BL Shirelle got a chance to catch up with her on how sheβs been doing since being released. FREE THEM ALLβ¦ wellβ¦ maybe not ALL lolβ¦
I sat down with Dannielle over Zoom, but after some struggling to get that to work on her end, we switched to a Google Meet which did the trick on her end. For someone whoβs been away from tech for 38 years, I was impressed!
Edited by BL Shirelle
BL Shirelle: I love your patience and excitement with figuring out this tech driven world, thatβs refreshing. When you said youβre a nerd, and youβre embracing the challenge of learning technology, thatβs good. Because for anyone whoβs done like 20+ years, thatβs the biggest challenge. Adjusting to all this tech stuff, but youβre gonna do great. I can feel it.
Dannielle Hadley: Thank you. Well, I plan on going to school. I wanna be a webmaster. I want to design websites and pages, maybe even write some code. Weβll see.
BL Shirelle: Oh wow, thatβs wonderful. Iβm not super techie, but Iβm good enough to get by. Iβm learning, though. I damn sure donβt know how to build a website. I know how to put stuff on it, make it look good, but the back end? Yeah, I donβt know. Youβre gonna have to teach me some of that.
Dannielle Hadley: (Laughs) Yeah, we can help each other out. Iβm learning as I go, too. I know we got it.
Dannielle Hadley & family.
BL Shirelle: I love that. So, how have you been? I know itβs a lot to adjust to.
Dannielle Hadley: Iβm okay. I had to fight to get my birth certificate and ID, but I got it. Now, Iβm trying to schedule doctorβs appointments, take care of my health. But Iβm thankful, Iβm blessed. Iβm just embracing each day, taking it one day at a time.
BL Shirelle: Amen. Thatβs all you can do, really. So, how long have you been home now? When we talked before, you were getting ready to cook for your sons. How long have you been spending nights out of the halfway house?
Dannielle Hadley: I donβt spend the night yet β just go from 1pm to 7pm. But yeah, Iβve been going to church first, then to my momβs from 1pm to 7pm. Just really enjoying that time with family. Iβve been home 5 weeks now and I still truly canβt believe it.
BL Shirelle: Howβs that been, getting back with your family? I know for you, youβve always been close with your family, but some people struggle with reuniting after so many years. Has it been hard for you, or do you feel like itβs just picking up where you left off?
Dannielle Hadley: Iβve never been without them. My mom kept me in the loop. I watched my kids and grandkids grow up. We stayed in touch through letters and calls. I always had input on decisions being made regarding their well being. Being with them now, physically β sometimes, it still feels surreal. I have to remind myself this is real. Itβs a blessing, and I donβt take it for granted. Iβm just so thankful. The other day I was showing them cards and letters they wrote to me when they were little. I kept every single one of them.
Dannielle Hadley introduces the song and sings in choir.
BL Shirelle: Thatβs beautiful. And God rest your momβs soul. I was so sad when I heard she passed right before your hearing. But honestly, when I heard that devastating news ββ something told me you were about to get out. Itβs like God works in mysterious ways, doesnβt he?
Dannielle Hadley: He really does. When he shows up, he shows up. Sometimes you donβt know when or how, but you just gotta trust that itβs gonna happen. It doesnβt happen without work on your part though. Sometimes, people canβt face the gravity of their actions. They get defensive. I understand that, too. Itβs hard to take responsibility for something heavy. But you canβt really grow if you donβt own up to it. God works through the things that matter most to us. Heβll find a way to make us see, even if itβs in a different form than we expect.
BL Shirelle: Yeah, and Iβve been thinking about that lately β about forgiveness. Not just asking for it, but living it. Itβs about showing it in your actions and how you move forward.
Dannielle Hadley: Thatβs the key. Asking for forgiveness is one thing, but showing it in how you live β thatβs the real work. You gotta walk the walk.
BL Shirelle: Exactly. So, let's talk about food! What have you been cooking lately? You said you cooked for your sons recently.
Dannielle Hadley: I made some short thighs, and I made a honey mustard sauce. Something I'm sure they had never tasted before. I took some honey, some Dijon mustard, some Worcester sauce and an orange and mixed them together and marinated the chicken with it. I mixed some black beans and some corn, cut up some red peppers, a yellow pepper and some onions; cooked it in butter. I made some white rice and poured it on top of itβ¦ they thought it was delicious! My son's always talking about βwe donβt want that jailhouse food!!β [Laughs] I had to show emβ something.
BL Shirelle: That sounds amazing! Youβve got me wanting some. I still love Chi-Chiβs. Even after all these years.
Dannielle Hadley: [Laughs] Iβm not a fan of Chi-Chi. But, hey, to each their own! I still love mackerel and rice and potato balls though!
BL Shirelle: You havenβt had mine yet! I make a mean one. Iβll show you how itβs done in the free world. So, when I was recently in New York you asked me for some pictures. Youβve always been into exploring new places. Whereβs the first place you want to go when you can?
Dannielle Hadley: I wanna go visit my cousin in Hawaii, and Iβve got family in California and Virginia too. I really wanna travel abroad β Germany and England are at the top of my list. My cousin travels the world, and we used to go on road trips when we were younger. We would just hop in the car and go without a real destination. Now, I just wanna see the world.
BL Shirelle: I feel you. Wherever your heart takes you, I hope you get to go.
Dannielle Hadley: Iβm gonna make it happen. I feel it coming.
BL Shirelle: Since youβve been out, how often do you think about prison and the women still in there? I know itβs gotta be on your mind a lot.
Dannielle Hadley: Every day. Someone reaches out to me almost daily, and I think about my sisters whoβve been there. Itβs hard knowing theyβre still stuck. I donβt want them to give up hope. Iβm writing letters, sending cards, doing what I can to let them know theyβre not forgotten.
BL Shirelle: Yeah, weβve gotta keep that fight going. Our next focus is on getting Miss Bert and Miss Brenda out. We need to keep that pressure on.
Dannielle Hadley: Once my feet are under me just a little bit, Iβll do whatever I can. I want to set up a website, write letters, and keep the cause alive. Canβt be out here and not look back. People like us, whoβve been through it, weβre the ones who will appreciate freedom the most. Weβre gonna make the most of this second chance. Iβm all in.
BL Shirelle: Absolutely, FREE THEM ALL!!
BL Shirelle & Dannielle Hadley (Simultaneously): Well, not ALL!! (both laugh)
BL Shirelle: Itβs funny we both feel the same about this. The vast majority of lifers and long termers are either completely rehabilitated or aged out, but there is a small 2% who are genuinely not good people. The whole thing with [Pennsylvania Governor] Shapiro is heβs very slow to act. Iβve been a bit skeptical and critical about him. He killed our momentum for a second. It was like he didnβt want to touch anything to mess up his chances for something bigger β heβs obviously trying to be a national star or something. Since heβs signed off on your release, Iβm starting to feel hopeful. We just gotta keep the pressure on him.
Itβs a certain person who wanted my support and I couldnβt vouch for them. Because you ainβt gonna mess this movement up. In my experience youβre a horrible person. That would hurt so many peopleβs chances. If I truly believe that you're not worthy, I canβt support you. Iβm sorry β itβs for the greater good.
Dannielle Hadley: Yes, you know me, Iβm doing my best to stay on the path that was put before me and not have those judgmental feelings and attitudes. But dude, come on. Nope, it's 99 years later, youβre literally still the same person.
We just gotta make it clear: this is non-negotiable. There are people whoβve been in for 40, 50 years. Theyβve paid their dues. They donβt need to be there any longer. If you put your money on us, weβre gonna make the best of this second chance. We wonβt let you down. The vast majority of us.
BL Shirelle: So in terms of needsβ¦ whatβs your priority list? What are you focusing on right now? Anything we can help you with?
Dannielle Hadley: Yeah, so the first thing I need is a mattress. A really good mattress. I also need to get some teeth. I donβt have all my teeth, just the front ones. I really need some new ones. And of course, housing. I donβt want to live with my sons. I could stay there, but I want to have my own space. Iβve got plenty of places I could lay my head, but I want a house or apartment, you know? Iβm willing to work for it.
BL Shirelle: Good priorities. I love that.
If youβd like to shoot Ms. Dannielle some coin, her cash app is $DannielleHadley.
You can also follow her on IG! @hadleydannielle
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